Dreams And Courage: An Athlete Story
One of my athletes sent me a story – his story – of how he got into this sport and how unlikely this seemed for many, many years.
I’ve included this here – with his permission – to show what is possible, and to show what ambition, determination and courage looks like.
Not every gold medal winner crosses the line first.
Here is his story.
The Start
I woke up in June 2009 on the day of my holiday to my favourite place Ibiza coughing up blood. I had a chest infection the month before which just got worse and worse.
Previously pre-2009 I had no lung issues but was never able to run for more than 60 seconds. I later found out I had asthma all my life – this made sense to me because I was last in every cross country race in school and always lagged behind the others in anything long distance. I did a lot of weight training but was never able to build a fitness base.
Health Issues
Things got really bad from here and between 2009 to 2016 I averaged around 9 -10 chest infections a year, coughing up blood was now the new normal ( the doctors told me that this was down to bursting blood vessels in my throat because I was coughing soo hard ). I lost 2 stone in weight and could never manage to put any weight back on.
After years of poor health and many courses of prednisone which caused huge weight gain I finally managed to get my asthma under control, one of the main causes was gastric reflux from an undiagnosed hiatal hernia which I finally managed to get diagnosed and was put on acid suppressant medication which calmed things down to a reasonable 3 – 4 chest infections per year.
Quality of life was pretty poor with getting sick all the time and I remember watching a football match and dreaming about being able to run without getting out of breath.
After journaling everything I ate and drank for a couple of years things began to settle, I also found out I was intolerant to milk which was causing some of the acid.
The Training Diary
In 2018 I started a training diary and wrote some fitness goals for our wedding in 2019. I wanted to try and get fit and lose weight.
I started to swim breaststroke a couple of times a week – and felt better afterwards.
The Dream
I remember one morning sitting in the jacuzzi in David Lloyd fantasising about doing a triathlon. I knew this was ridiculous but I thought if I broke it down into small sections that this would be the only realistic way of doing it. I kept visualising myself doing it for years and imagined crossing the finish line and winning a medal.
I didn’t know anyone who had done a triathlon and agreed to myself this was one of the biggest goals I’d ever set. My theory was that if I could commit and complete a triathlon all my health issues would have no choice but to be fixed.
I knew I could ride a bike so ticked that off. I’d never ran before but thought if I get fit I’d somehow get round it. Realistically I knew I needed to learn to swim without dying after half a length.
I’d heard about a coach who was based in the Albert Dock and I was told he was supposed be the best. I waited years because I knew I wasn’t ready and could only contact him once I knew my asthma was under control.
In 2020 I was put on a combination inhaler which changed everything, my asthma was now better than ever.
Meeting The Swim Squad
I remember going down to meet Bryan in 2021, absolutely terrified because I had never swam in open water before and had never been in a wetsuit.
Bryan agreed for me to stay at the back of his group (Triathlon Swim Squad) and see how I got on. I remember trying to keep up with the group and was absolutely blown away by the high standard of swimming I witnessed – I had never seen anything like this before and loved it. I felt privileged to swim alongside the group.

Racing!
With practice and work in the pool I entered my first open water swimming event in June 2021 and loved it. (Here is a link to the post we wrote at the time)
In April 2023, with the help of Bryan Riley and the members of Triathlon Swim Squad, my dream came true and I crossed over the finish line and completed West Lancs Sprint Triathlon and got my medal to prove it.
Now I know anything is possible for anyone willing to work hard and follow your dreams.
What this athlete doesn’t say is how much commitment he has shown and how much effort he has put in to get to where he is now.
- He has been a regular swimmer at our Monday evening swim technique sessions.
- He has been to lots and lots of our open water swim sessions.
- He diligently followed a personalised training plan to help him get to that finish line.
- He came along to last year’s Swim Squad Christmas get together and was so inspired by all of the triathletes, he entered his first triathlon the very next day!
- He is hooked – and is currently building an extension on his house for a dedicated ‘pain cave’.
What a story!
The power of a dream and the courage to go for it.
I’ll say it again …
Not every gold medal winner crosses the line first.

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